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💍 Renewed Vows, Renewed Hearts
Reflections on Love, Marriage, and Faith

Yesterday, I was incredibly lucky to be invited to a dear friend’s wedding—or rather, a vow renewal ceremony. I'm truly happy for the couple, Claudia and her husband, as they chose to recommit themselves to each other and to God in a beautiful, heartfelt celebration. Though they were married eight years ago, this moment was not just a reminder of their love, but a public expression of their desire to keep that love alive and growing.

Claudia, a radiant bride from Mexico, is married to a kind and joyful Norwegian man. The atmosphere was filled with warmth, love, and unity. They looked just as happy—if not more so—than the day they first said “I do.”

One of the highlights was a beautiful guitar performance by David, the son of Pastor Geir Yngve. His music gently ushered us into the sacredness of the moment. Then, the pastor himself sang a song for the couple, a touching gesture that left many of us moved to tears.

Pastor Geir Yngve didn’t just perform; he also shared something profound: the secret to remaining happy in marriage. His message deeply touched the hearts of everyone present, myself included. It was both a gentle reminder and a powerful affirmation.

I, too, am in a happy marriage—and what the pastor shared felt like a confirmation that we’re on the right path. Yet, like Claudia and her husband, I know that marriage isn’t a one-time promise; it must be renewed daily. A thriving relationship requires attention, care, and consistent love.

As a believer, I see a beautiful parallel in our relationship with God. Just as a marriage needs constant nurturing, so does our walk with God. Jesus said, “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.” This means I must listen to Him, seek Him, and walk with Him every day. Because...

True happiness isn’t found in any other reward than that of being united with God.

In marriage, we must listen to one another, spend time together, and remain united if we want our relationship to grow. I once heard someone say, “Treat your husband like a king, and he will treat you like a queen.” Perhaps that’s one of the secrets to a joyful partnership.

Being married is an ongoing journey of discovery—of learning each other’s thoughts, dreams, hopes, and fears. It’s about knowing that, even in the toughest times, your partner will stand beside you.

The same applies to our relationship with God. He already knows everything about us, but how can we know Him if we don’t spend time in His Word and in His presence? How can we say we love Him—this God who gave His only Son for our salvation—if we don’t place Him first in our lives?

One thing I’m sure of is this:

When life gets tough and everyone else disappears, God will still be there for me.

If we can love people who love us back, how much more should we love the God who loves us unconditionally? Sadly, many people are blind to this truth. They seek love in the wrong places and end up disappointed. They chase happiness in God’s creation, forgetting the Creator Himself.

But the Bible reminds us:
“But seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you.” — Matthew 6:33

So, to the lovely couple I witnessed yesterday, I simply say:
May you live happily ever after.
And I know, without a doubt, that everyone who was there would wholeheartedly agree. ❤️